lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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I appreciate any input here. Or should I just comply to what the gym trainer will give me?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Badass christmass tree! I'm procrastinating on a needed cut but hoping I'll have one of these when I'm done. Lats are feeling pretty swole now.Yeah if you give me a pic i can give you better advice
Heres my pic so you know im not all ****
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Weighted pullups are the go.Badass christmass tree! I'm procrastinating on a needed cut but hoping I'll have one of these when I'm done. Lats are feeling pretty swole now.
Made that mistake in the past if bulking when i was already over 15% bodyfat and i got big (215+) but i was fat as **** and had fat bloated face etc.Basically I agree with infernos idea, get leaner first then go for the size.
When you will start pushing seriously your noobs gains (the boost you have as someone just beginning) will give you more tone and some size.
If you just get big now you will get more muscular but you will drag that high body fat and it will a pain in the ass to lose it without losing muscles too.
Anyway just remember to clean your diet, cut the alchool and the simple sugars and sleep 7-8 hours AT NIGHT, partying till 4 and then getting up at 12 is not the same thing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's a strength program that sucks for asthetics, 8-12 reps for muscle growth is the best range5x5 stronglifts is a pretty good system for 3 days a week. If not enough, you can add in isolation work as well
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.