AmsterdamAssassin
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Don't make this a religious discussion...So it was just oral?
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Don't make this a religious discussion...So it was just oral?
What did marriage offer you that you did not have just keeping her as a girlfriend? Why get the state involved?why are you asking the question? Explain why you want to know and then I’ll tell you.
90% sir.You know I was a Catholic alter boy! . Never had butt sex with the priest tho.
I didn’t ask for your opinion on marriage.What did marriage offer you that you did not have just keeping her as a girlfriend? Why get the state involved?
Hi FruitBat,Think the OP just missed awesome opportunity when he skipped socializing with her workmates.
Always join those!
Look your sharpest, have a great positive energy, be life of the party! ..and.. sarge her female co-workers in front of her
When having a change I always sarge her girlfriends/workmates. Of course normally I'd be courteous and refrain only to properly socially calibrated, innocent light flirting. Basically just be the awesome guy that everyone wants to be around. Most chicks really, really love this.
It's clear status boost for her to have awesome man.
But since she was disrespectful to you and hopefully you made it clear to her, I suggest crossing the line. Effin shamelessly kino her workmates in front of her to make the point(calibrated of course).
You could also have a good laugh with her workmates about how she farts when she sleeps ..And remember to tell everyone the story how you once found a skidmarks from her sheets and didn't know what to do and how to tell her..
It's not that she can have a meltdown in front of her workmates..
Later call her miss poopy pants
Well, this opportunity went by, but to sum it up you can have a overt conversation about your boundaries and then be strong at enforcing them.
This is the healthy good guy game.
Other way is to go dark triad on her misbehaving a$$. Never be clear about your boundaries, just sub communicate then and keep her guessing. And when she crosses the line start eroding her self confidence. "Oh, your forehead wrinkles really show in this lighting" This can be more powerful, but of course takes toll on your psyche..
Just an option.
I see. Spike the drinks…..I have some moral issues with that to be honest.Hi FruitBat,
The best advice for Parties is to grab the Bottle,be the nice guy going round filling all the Ladies Glasses with a witty comment and ever ready to introduce himself.
Hi Fruitbat..."Spike the drinks",?????I see. Spike the drinks…..I have some moral issues with that to be honest.
I suppose if the whole party is in a massive k-hole and I’m sober then I’m going to be the alpha by default.
you said grab the bottle and hand it out to the ladies.Hi Fruitbat..."Spike the drinks",?????
Hi Fruitbat,you said grab the bottle and hand it out to the ladies.
That sounded a bit malevolent
They don't understand that type of behaviour in the US. Either you're a waiter or you're spiking drinks...Hi Fruitbat,
Naah at Paties Soirees,everyone is standing around,sipping a drink having nibbles...Just Find an Open Bottle,mingle around topping everyone up.
Why not just answer the question instead of conjuring up this word salad?I didn’t ask for your opinion on marriage.
I’m posting about general management of relationship with a SO.
Comment on that all you like, I’m not sitting on trial because you, or others, want to feel better about yourselves by tearing someone else to shreds.
whatever I answer you know the answer is going to be “you made mistakes and only have yourself to blame” so just post that without the merry-go-round of bollocks beforehand
Just want to add this issue isn't exclusive to a work environment , her friends and even acquaintances can be equally as toxic and you need to screen them as much as you do herThe issue you may observe with an all female work environment is that your wife is exposed to a bit much feminist go girl rah rah crap. Bad attitudes. This you have to be mindful about. You want your wife to appreciate what she has with you as a husband and father and head of house.
Excellent post.Just want to add this issue isn't exclusive to a work environment , her friends and even acquaintances can be equally as toxic and you need to screen them as much as you do her
I have a friend who takes this too the extreme by actually accompanying his wife too her girlfriends social engagements I think to keep an eye on the topics of conversation
whilst I wouldn't do this and I find it a bit weird I can see his concern
There's not many women out there whom are in correctly polarised relationships and are completely happy / content some are more than happy to start corrupting other's as a result
I often say this but women are like water they will go in whichever direction a strong current takes them
You must dominate your womens mind , constantly impress your expectations and boundaries dont just assume that because you have been together a long time she couldn't be swayed into a new perspective or line of thought ( which lets be honest is were all disrespect starts )
LTR's are very complex you sort of lose the overriding desire for each other in day to day monotony ,the desire and drive for sex starts to wain for both of you and its very easy to take your eye off the ball
Before you know it , it can be all over
it would be considered a bit cheesy and falseThey don't understand that type of behaviour in the US. Either you're a waiter or you're spiking drinks...
Everything is cheesy and false if you don't do it with the proper attitude.it would be considered a bit cheesy and false