"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Judging Interest Level

ladodger32

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I just posted about this, but I look back now and realize how incredibly stupid the post looks...anyways...lemme rephrase...there is a girl I am into who I am having trouble determining the interest level of. Is there an effective and non-lame way to ask if she is interested? What are some ways to test interest level effectively (mainly tho I want to know if there is a way to find out verbally)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nike, just do it. Ask her out.
 

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Iv hung out w/ her once before, and I have plans to go out with her again. My question is, when out with her or talking with her, how do I judge if im viewed as a friend or in a more romantic way?
 

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more kino. Put your arm around her back. See if she stays very close to you (bumping into you) or keeps her distance. Look for the IOIs, like playing with hair, biting lip, etc.

Kino is really the answer here though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Schocker put it right..

The best way to judge is Kino.....

Not only that she is comfortable with your touch , but she should touch you as well , like playing with your hair etc
 

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IOI's, test the water.
This sounds ballsy, but tell her to close her eyes, you've got a surprise and kiss her :]
 

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Not getting personal , but have you ever tried your suggestion ,kiko-???

You'd probably get a slap for that one , not to mention the possiblity of a harasment suit on an extreme case.
 

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Yes, I have. Of course once I've gotten positive results, but yeah.

Be positive.




The kiss isn't meant to be french, just a peck on the lips.
 

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just tried it once????
the cick must really be in you , other wise you'd never get away with it with positive results (i.e not an expression of shock on her face)...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No, I meant i try it once I've gotten positive results from kino.. THEN I kiss her. I didn't mean that I only got a positive result from the kiss once.

Maybe things are different in India.
 

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Check your PM's, discuss there rather than changing the subject of this thread.
 
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