"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Judging Interest Level

ladodger32

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I just posted about this, but I look back now and realize how incredibly stupid the post looks...anyways...lemme rephrase...there is a girl I am into who I am having trouble determining the interest level of. Is there an effective and non-lame way to ask if she is interested? What are some ways to test interest level effectively (mainly tho I want to know if there is a way to find out verbally)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Shocker

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Nike, just do it. Ask her out.
 

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Iv hung out w/ her once before, and I have plans to go out with her again. My question is, when out with her or talking with her, how do I judge if im viewed as a friend or in a more romantic way?
 

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more kino. Put your arm around her back. See if she stays very close to you (bumping into you) or keeps her distance. Look for the IOIs, like playing with hair, biting lip, etc.

Kino is really the answer here though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Schocker put it right..

The best way to judge is Kino.....

Not only that she is comfortable with your touch , but she should touch you as well , like playing with your hair etc
 

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IOI's, test the water.
This sounds ballsy, but tell her to close her eyes, you've got a surprise and kiss her :]
 

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Not getting personal , but have you ever tried your suggestion ,kiko-???

You'd probably get a slap for that one , not to mention the possiblity of a harasment suit on an extreme case.
 

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Yes, I have. Of course once I've gotten positive results, but yeah.

Be positive.




The kiss isn't meant to be french, just a peck on the lips.
 

nicenomore

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just tried it once????
the cick must really be in you , other wise you'd never get away with it with positive results (i.e not an expression of shock on her face)...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No, I meant i try it once I've gotten positive results from kino.. THEN I kiss her. I didn't mean that I only got a positive result from the kiss once.

Maybe things are different in India.
 

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Check your PM's, discuss there rather than changing the subject of this thread.
 
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