"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Judging a person's virginity

splinterkb

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Noone else sees that antidonjaun is just a troll?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You haven't convinced with the evidence you provided In Motion.

But if I could assume whether someone has had sex based on the manner they communicated, I would say that you would fall into the category of someone who is desperate for sex. I'm not attacking you here, so don't get defensive.

I can't seem to take in advice from someone who seems a little insecure, eg. Constant attacks on those who disagree with you, over-compensation and reassurance of your actions eg. When you spoke about her not being able to b*tch to you etc.. seem to convey you are actually quite insecure and may not be getting all that much sex.

Which would seem kind of dumb if people were to believe you on this subject if you are sending me "desperate male" vibes.

-Lust.
 

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antidonjuan said:
masturbating? that sounds so disgusting trying it! touching my own private area is terrible, i wouldn't listen to you on this one
lol. its not so bad
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Every now and then I come back to visit the HS SS boards, and I too often facepalm at what I see.
 
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