"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Judging a person's virginity

splinterkb

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Noone else sees that antidonjaun is just a troll?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lust

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You haven't convinced with the evidence you provided In Motion.

But if I could assume whether someone has had sex based on the manner they communicated, I would say that you would fall into the category of someone who is desperate for sex. I'm not attacking you here, so don't get defensive.

I can't seem to take in advice from someone who seems a little insecure, eg. Constant attacks on those who disagree with you, over-compensation and reassurance of your actions eg. When you spoke about her not being able to b*tch to you etc.. seem to convey you are actually quite insecure and may not be getting all that much sex.

Which would seem kind of dumb if people were to believe you on this subject if you are sending me "desperate male" vibes.

-Lust.
 

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antidonjuan said:
masturbating? that sounds so disgusting trying it! touching my own private area is terrible, i wouldn't listen to you on this one
lol. its not so bad
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Every now and then I come back to visit the HS SS boards, and I too often facepalm at what I see.
 
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