"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Judging a person's virginity

splinterkb

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Noone else sees that antidonjaun is just a troll?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lust

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You haven't convinced with the evidence you provided In Motion.

But if I could assume whether someone has had sex based on the manner they communicated, I would say that you would fall into the category of someone who is desperate for sex. I'm not attacking you here, so don't get defensive.

I can't seem to take in advice from someone who seems a little insecure, eg. Constant attacks on those who disagree with you, over-compensation and reassurance of your actions eg. When you spoke about her not being able to b*tch to you etc.. seem to convey you are actually quite insecure and may not be getting all that much sex.

Which would seem kind of dumb if people were to believe you on this subject if you are sending me "desperate male" vibes.

-Lust.
 

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antidonjuan said:
masturbating? that sounds so disgusting trying it! touching my own private area is terrible, i wouldn't listen to you on this one
lol. its not so bad
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Every now and then I come back to visit the HS SS boards, and I too often facepalm at what I see.
 
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