"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Judging a person's virginity

splinterkb

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Noone else sees that antidonjaun is just a troll?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lust

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You haven't convinced with the evidence you provided In Motion.

But if I could assume whether someone has had sex based on the manner they communicated, I would say that you would fall into the category of someone who is desperate for sex. I'm not attacking you here, so don't get defensive.

I can't seem to take in advice from someone who seems a little insecure, eg. Constant attacks on those who disagree with you, over-compensation and reassurance of your actions eg. When you spoke about her not being able to b*tch to you etc.. seem to convey you are actually quite insecure and may not be getting all that much sex.

Which would seem kind of dumb if people were to believe you on this subject if you are sending me "desperate male" vibes.

-Lust.
 

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antidonjuan said:
masturbating? that sounds so disgusting trying it! touching my own private area is terrible, i wouldn't listen to you on this one
lol. its not so bad
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Every now and then I come back to visit the HS SS boards, and I too often facepalm at what I see.
 
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