Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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[Journal] Onto the next challenge

Epicurus

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2/16/18
From February 2017 until January 2018 I went on an absolute rampage. Bedding as many women as many times as possible in as many places. It was fun, sometimes extremely irresponsible(went raw maybe with 2 of the girls. I DO NOT RECOMMED IT.) The madness, the wild nights all lead up to a HIV/STD screening. Which to no ones surprise. I came out as clean as a whistle.

Which brings me to today. It’s funny how life works, when you least expect it clarity is given. That life doesn’t excite me anymore. I’ve done it all. Banged the good girl, the bad girl, the slut, the one who said were not banging. Been there done that. It doesn’t prove a challenge to me, it’s become second nature to secure casual sex.
But finding a good girl, that’s my new turn on. Conquering someone, having the ability to truly break them down because of what they feel for you. Holding a connection, the journey begins

Current prospects:
1.) Slim thick dirty blonde Hispanic chick in my ehthics class. Class just started last week and it’s once a week meeting date so have not been able to catch her name. Pretty sure it’s Amanda
2.) Stef, cute young petite with great amount of music taste and humor. Very alike in our personality. Still to go out on a date
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I thought this thead was going to be about 'challenge'. o_O :p
 
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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
 

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It's funny how quickly chasing tail gets boring. While I am not saying someone should chase a relationship instead, the process almost becomes so routine. You can use the exact same routine on most women and have it work 90% of the time. That is the point when you get more selective on who you spend your time with which is where you are at now. Fortunately, it will allow you to focus more energy on building yourself up. Good job!
 

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I thought this thead was going to be about 'challenge'. o_O :p
My experience had been that it is relatively easy to find slvtty women to bang, but much more challenging to find a woman who is suitable for a LTR - and have that girl want to build her life around you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
That is the universe creating your reality.
After I broke up with my girlfriend last year who's birthday was may the 4th, I dated 2 other girls who were born on may 4th.
The last girl, I asked her what's your birthday and the moment I asked May 4th popped in my mind, and she said May 4th (wild mindfvck).
 

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It's funny how quickly chasing tail gets boring. While I am not saying someone should chase a relationship instead, the process almost becomes so routine. You can use the exact same routine on most women and have it work 90% of the time.
Hahaha...well it's good when it works. When you have bad old habits like me it's the same boring routine just without the sex to liven it up. I feel like a machine when I'm getting dates now, it's so mechanical and regular. As is the flaking and BS.

Anyway good job OP, sounds like you had fun and you know what you're doing!
 

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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
We're you expecting that your ex was the onlh person in the world to have that name? Names aren't like fingerprints you know...
 

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We're you expecting that your ex was the onlh person in the world to have that name? Names aren't like fingerprints you know...
No I was not. It was just funny, considering I live in South Florida where upwards of 5 million people reside
 

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No I was not. It was just funny, considering I live in South Florida where upwards of 5 million people reside
South Florida has the sluttiest women in the world good luck finding an LTR! If I were you I’d just bang the baddest Latinas I can find on south beach
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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