"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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[Journal] Onto the next challenge

Epicurus

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2/16/18
From February 2017 until January 2018 I went on an absolute rampage. Bedding as many women as many times as possible in as many places. It was fun, sometimes extremely irresponsible(went raw maybe with 2 of the girls. I DO NOT RECOMMED IT.) The madness, the wild nights all lead up to a HIV/STD screening. Which to no ones surprise. I came out as clean as a whistle.

Which brings me to today. It’s funny how life works, when you least expect it clarity is given. That life doesn’t excite me anymore. I’ve done it all. Banged the good girl, the bad girl, the slut, the one who said were not banging. Been there done that. It doesn’t prove a challenge to me, it’s become second nature to secure casual sex.
But finding a good girl, that’s my new turn on. Conquering someone, having the ability to truly break them down because of what they feel for you. Holding a connection, the journey begins

Current prospects:
1.) Slim thick dirty blonde Hispanic chick in my ehthics class. Class just started last week and it’s once a week meeting date so have not been able to catch her name. Pretty sure it’s Amanda
2.) Stef, cute young petite with great amount of music taste and humor. Very alike in our personality. Still to go out on a date
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I thought this thead was going to be about 'challenge'. o_O :p
 
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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
 

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It's funny how quickly chasing tail gets boring. While I am not saying someone should chase a relationship instead, the process almost becomes so routine. You can use the exact same routine on most women and have it work 90% of the time. That is the point when you get more selective on who you spend your time with which is where you are at now. Fortunately, it will allow you to focus more energy on building yourself up. Good job!
 

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I thought this thead was going to be about 'challenge'. o_O :p
My experience had been that it is relatively easy to find slvtty women to bang, but much more challenging to find a woman who is suitable for a LTR - and have that girl want to build her life around you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
That is the universe creating your reality.
After I broke up with my girlfriend last year who's birthday was may the 4th, I dated 2 other girls who were born on may 4th.
The last girl, I asked her what's your birthday and the moment I asked May 4th popped in my mind, and she said May 4th (wild mindfvck).
 

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It's funny how quickly chasing tail gets boring. While I am not saying someone should chase a relationship instead, the process almost becomes so routine. You can use the exact same routine on most women and have it work 90% of the time.
Hahaha...well it's good when it works. When you have bad old habits like me it's the same boring routine just without the sex to liven it up. I feel like a machine when I'm getting dates now, it's so mechanical and regular. As is the flaking and BS.

Anyway good job OP, sounds like you had fun and you know what you're doing!
 

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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
We're you expecting that your ex was the onlh person in the world to have that name? Names aren't like fingerprints you know...
 

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We're you expecting that your ex was the onlh person in the world to have that name? Names aren't like fingerprints you know...
No I was not. It was just funny, considering I live in South Florida where upwards of 5 million people reside
 

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No I was not. It was just funny, considering I live in South Florida where upwards of 5 million people reside
South Florida has the sluttiest women in the world good luck finding an LTR! If I were you I’d just bang the baddest Latinas I can find on south beach
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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