"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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[Journal] Onto the next challenge

Epicurus

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2/16/18
From February 2017 until January 2018 I went on an absolute rampage. Bedding as many women as many times as possible in as many places. It was fun, sometimes extremely irresponsible(went raw maybe with 2 of the girls. I DO NOT RECOMMED IT.) The madness, the wild nights all lead up to a HIV/STD screening. Which to no ones surprise. I came out as clean as a whistle.

Which brings me to today. It’s funny how life works, when you least expect it clarity is given. That life doesn’t excite me anymore. I’ve done it all. Banged the good girl, the bad girl, the slut, the one who said were not banging. Been there done that. It doesn’t prove a challenge to me, it’s become second nature to secure casual sex.
But finding a good girl, that’s my new turn on. Conquering someone, having the ability to truly break them down because of what they feel for you. Holding a connection, the journey begins

Current prospects:
1.) Slim thick dirty blonde Hispanic chick in my ehthics class. Class just started last week and it’s once a week meeting date so have not been able to catch her name. Pretty sure it’s Amanda
2.) Stef, cute young petite with great amount of music taste and humor. Very alike in our personality. Still to go out on a date
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I thought this thead was going to be about 'challenge'. o_O :p
 
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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
 

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It's funny how quickly chasing tail gets boring. While I am not saying someone should chase a relationship instead, the process almost becomes so routine. You can use the exact same routine on most women and have it work 90% of the time. That is the point when you get more selective on who you spend your time with which is where you are at now. Fortunately, it will allow you to focus more energy on building yourself up. Good job!
 

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I thought this thead was going to be about 'challenge'. o_O :p
My experience had been that it is relatively easy to find slvtty women to bang, but much more challenging to find a woman who is suitable for a LTR - and have that girl want to build her life around you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
That is the universe creating your reality.
After I broke up with my girlfriend last year who's birthday was may the 4th, I dated 2 other girls who were born on may 4th.
The last girl, I asked her what's your birthday and the moment I asked May 4th popped in my mind, and she said May 4th (wild mindfvck).
 

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It's funny how quickly chasing tail gets boring. While I am not saying someone should chase a relationship instead, the process almost becomes so routine. You can use the exact same routine on most women and have it work 90% of the time.
Hahaha...well it's good when it works. When you have bad old habits like me it's the same boring routine just without the sex to liven it up. I feel like a machine when I'm getting dates now, it's so mechanical and regular. As is the flaking and BS.

Anyway good job OP, sounds like you had fun and you know what you're doing!
 

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Cute girl from ethics class. Got her number and name. Which happens to be the same as my ex, life is funny
We're you expecting that your ex was the onlh person in the world to have that name? Names aren't like fingerprints you know...
 

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We're you expecting that your ex was the onlh person in the world to have that name? Names aren't like fingerprints you know...
No I was not. It was just funny, considering I live in South Florida where upwards of 5 million people reside
 

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No I was not. It was just funny, considering I live in South Florida where upwards of 5 million people reside
South Florida has the sluttiest women in the world good luck finding an LTR! If I were you I’d just bang the baddest Latinas I can find on south beach
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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