"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jordan Peterson nailed it in this video !!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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As for picking up girls, if you google pictures of his wife, it'll become clear that he is anything but an expert on the subject...
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They've been married for 30 years, that's nothing to sneeze at. She probably looked a lot better when they met. At least she's not fat. Maybe he's attracted to her for her mind.
But he's a psychologist, not a pickup guru.
I like him because he seems to be grounded in good masculine views.
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His wife is crazy fit.
His daughter quite beautiful and fit too. And she has her own blog where she put "sexy" pose there
. (Underwear and sport bra). For a Teenage mother, she's great, Her blog about mental health and food.Still i love JP
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This video doesn’t play on my phone, while the second video in this thread does. I see HTML five wrapping around the video, which is not clickable.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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In this video he gets pretty abstract as is his tendency. I like Jordan overall but it can take him forever to get to his point. He speaks very parenthetically.
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PUAs actually aspire to be psychopaths. I'm sure you've read all that stuff about how women are attracted to the Dark Triad traits. These are the behaviors they're trying to emulate, many of them anyway. Jordan is spot on.