"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jordan Peterson nailed it in this video !!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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As for picking up girls, if you google pictures of his wife, it'll become clear that he is anything but an expert on the subject...
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They've been married for 30 years, that's nothing to sneeze at. She probably looked a lot better when they met. At least she's not fat. Maybe he's attracted to her for her mind.
But he's a psychologist, not a pickup guru.
I like him because he seems to be grounded in good masculine views.
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His wife is crazy fit.
His daughter quite beautiful and fit too. And she has her own blog where she put "sexy" pose there
. (Underwear and sport bra). For a Teenage mother, she's great, Her blog about mental health and food.Still i love JP
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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This video doesn’t play on my phone, while the second video in this thread does. I see HTML five wrapping around the video, which is not clickable.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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In this video he gets pretty abstract as is his tendency. I like Jordan overall but it can take him forever to get to his point. He speaks very parenthetically.
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PUAs actually aspire to be psychopaths. I'm sure you've read all that stuff about how women are attracted to the Dark Triad traits. These are the behaviors they're trying to emulate, many of them anyway. Jordan is spot on.