"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It is important to have a good job and a promise of a good career. It helps your confidence immensely. A good job, and a steady cash flow in my opinion is a very HUGE part of DJing.

A girl doesn't want to be with a guy that doesn't have the stability to man up and take care of himself.

I will include here a few quick tips on how to get that job you want.

Initiative.

Confidence.

Persistence.

A good job isn't going to just fly in your direction. Usually you have to spend a GOOD amount of free time looking for these jobs.

I have no doubt, that if I am qualified education and experience wise, or even a bit short that I can nail almost any job I want.

This is post resume stuff.

Show the employer that you ARE the one that they need. That you will provide and exceed ANY expectations that they want from you. Make this clear from the beginning. Show them how serious you are about the job. Do your research on the company, and the position in general. Throw these in, and let them know that you're ready and you're the one THEY NEED. Not want, not choose, but THEY NEED YOU. YOU ARE AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE COMPANY.

You MUST keep this mentality in your mind. Show up with upmost confidence and a strict, uncompromising, unforgiving sharp dress code. You are perfect, and you need to stress this to them.

We as don juans are not part of the herd. We do not settle for anything less than what we hold ourselves to be. And that is Excellence.

You need to get into this mentality. YOU ARE the one that gets that competitive position. YOU ARE the one that exceeds all others. WE ARE ELITE.

NOW GIVE IT SOME HEAT.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
 
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very true
but it should be said it is not a must
having a job + money does help, it can just make things easier
 
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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
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Yeah nigga.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
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I'm sure that's how we all feel and should feel. However, since this is a dating site, I feel inclined too throw in a pinch of incentive.
 
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