"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jobs.

BrokenPath

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It is important to have a good job and a promise of a good career. It helps your confidence immensely. A good job, and a steady cash flow in my opinion is a very HUGE part of DJing.

A girl doesn't want to be with a guy that doesn't have the stability to man up and take care of himself.

I will include here a few quick tips on how to get that job you want.

Initiative.

Confidence.

Persistence.

A good job isn't going to just fly in your direction. Usually you have to spend a GOOD amount of free time looking for these jobs.

I have no doubt, that if I am qualified education and experience wise, or even a bit short that I can nail almost any job I want.

This is post resume stuff.

Show the employer that you ARE the one that they need. That you will provide and exceed ANY expectations that they want from you. Make this clear from the beginning. Show them how serious you are about the job. Do your research on the company, and the position in general. Throw these in, and let them know that you're ready and you're the one THEY NEED. Not want, not choose, but THEY NEED YOU. YOU ARE AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE COMPANY.

You MUST keep this mentality in your mind. Show up with upmost confidence and a strict, uncompromising, unforgiving sharp dress code. You are perfect, and you need to stress this to them.

We as don juans are not part of the herd. We do not settle for anything less than what we hold ourselves to be. And that is Excellence.

You need to get into this mentality. YOU ARE the one that gets that competitive position. YOU ARE the one that exceeds all others. WE ARE ELITE.

NOW GIVE IT SOME HEAT.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Centaurion

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There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
 

onthepath

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very true
but it should be said it is not a must
having a job + money does help, it can just make things easier
 

BrokenPath

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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
Yeah nigga.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
I'm sure that's how we all feel and should feel. However, since this is a dating site, I feel inclined too throw in a pinch of incentive.
 
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