Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BrokenPath

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It is important to have a good job and a promise of a good career. It helps your confidence immensely. A good job, and a steady cash flow in my opinion is a very HUGE part of DJing.

A girl doesn't want to be with a guy that doesn't have the stability to man up and take care of himself.

I will include here a few quick tips on how to get that job you want.

Initiative.

Confidence.

Persistence.

A good job isn't going to just fly in your direction. Usually you have to spend a GOOD amount of free time looking for these jobs.

I have no doubt, that if I am qualified education and experience wise, or even a bit short that I can nail almost any job I want.

This is post resume stuff.

Show the employer that you ARE the one that they need. That you will provide and exceed ANY expectations that they want from you. Make this clear from the beginning. Show them how serious you are about the job. Do your research on the company, and the position in general. Throw these in, and let them know that you're ready and you're the one THEY NEED. Not want, not choose, but THEY NEED YOU. YOU ARE AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE COMPANY.

You MUST keep this mentality in your mind. Show up with upmost confidence and a strict, uncompromising, unforgiving sharp dress code. You are perfect, and you need to stress this to them.

We as don juans are not part of the herd. We do not settle for anything less than what we hold ourselves to be. And that is Excellence.

You need to get into this mentality. YOU ARE the one that gets that competitive position. YOU ARE the one that exceeds all others. WE ARE ELITE.

NOW GIVE IT SOME HEAT.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
 

onthepath

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very true
but it should be said it is not a must
having a job + money does help, it can just make things easier
 

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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
Yeah nigga.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
I'm sure that's how we all feel and should feel. However, since this is a dating site, I feel inclined too throw in a pinch of incentive.
 
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