"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It is important to have a good job and a promise of a good career. It helps your confidence immensely. A good job, and a steady cash flow in my opinion is a very HUGE part of DJing.

A girl doesn't want to be with a guy that doesn't have the stability to man up and take care of himself.

I will include here a few quick tips on how to get that job you want.

Initiative.

Confidence.

Persistence.

A good job isn't going to just fly in your direction. Usually you have to spend a GOOD amount of free time looking for these jobs.

I have no doubt, that if I am qualified education and experience wise, or even a bit short that I can nail almost any job I want.

This is post resume stuff.

Show the employer that you ARE the one that they need. That you will provide and exceed ANY expectations that they want from you. Make this clear from the beginning. Show them how serious you are about the job. Do your research on the company, and the position in general. Throw these in, and let them know that you're ready and you're the one THEY NEED. Not want, not choose, but THEY NEED YOU. YOU ARE AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE COMPANY.

You MUST keep this mentality in your mind. Show up with upmost confidence and a strict, uncompromising, unforgiving sharp dress code. You are perfect, and you need to stress this to them.

We as don juans are not part of the herd. We do not settle for anything less than what we hold ourselves to be. And that is Excellence.

You need to get into this mentality. YOU ARE the one that gets that competitive position. YOU ARE the one that exceeds all others. WE ARE ELITE.

NOW GIVE IT SOME HEAT.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
 
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very true
but it should be said it is not a must
having a job + money does help, it can just make things easier
 
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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
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Yeah nigga.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Centaurion said:
There is much truth in this.

However, I would not get a job / choose a career just because I want to lay chicks. I take great pride in my work and my career - and I couldn't care less what a girl thought about my job.
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I'm sure that's how we all feel and should feel. However, since this is a dating site, I feel inclined too throw in a pinch of incentive.
 
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