CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
Everyone comes back
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So who were you before?Everyone comes back
Rollo TamassiSo who were you before?
He a corny dresser, I can see the resemblance.Rollo Tamassi
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!@Jesse Pinkman departure isn't sitting well with me.
Got another SNL this weekend as well.And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!
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4/12/24 - Roaring back into Miami
I return to Miami from Europe and this happens.post30.substack.com
How was it meeting the Red pill dorks?So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
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I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
You can read about it hereHow as it meeting the Red pill dorks?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I briefly looked at Michael Sartain and it looks like his program resembles a club promoter lifestyle a lot.So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
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I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
Seems none of these gals who you've acquainted yourself with have shared a fate similar to that of Jane Margolis, Jesse. This in and of itself is exceptionally commendableMontreal trip
3 dates
2 lays
All on my blog
Tourist frame, or "Life experience frame" is real. The girls that have travelled or somehow are life experienced are more comfortable in themselves and simply not timid and scared. I get the furthest with these two types of girls. This is the danger of not being in a larger city, the girls have locked themselves.One guy I know told me about the "Tourist Frame" in Miami. The frame is that tourists are fun, more likely to try new things, and not stuckup prudes like the locals are. He is a fun guy with an interesting life and in most cases, only tourists are cool enough to break into that frame. Locals CAN break into his cool life if he approaches them and they are nice, engaging, and chatty with him. Then, they are different from the other locals and get to be a part of his cool tribe.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Good to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.Alright dudes, it's been quite a while. I have not logged in here since October but I guess after some point, you do want to come back when you get bored or have some downtime. As @CornbreadFed said, everyone comes back. I am not even sure what state this forum is in but I have to say, I changed a ton in these past few months.
I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
Can you bump that thread? I got some more opinions to share but I lost where the thread is lolGood to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.
The thread where you made a name for yourself on this forum was
Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school
In general, we don't discuss field reports enough.
I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.Sweden trip was not at all ideal which I will write about. 2024 took me to some lows but after months of recovering, I come back in 2025.
Beautiful country but unfortunately, my trip was filled with lack of sleep on a crappy flight and I had to burn days just to catch up on sleep.I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.