CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
Everyone comes back
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So who were you before?Everyone comes back
Rollo TamassiSo who were you before?
He a corny dresser, I can see the resemblance.Rollo Tamassi
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!@Jesse Pinkman departure isn't sitting well with me.
Got another SNL this weekend as well.And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!
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4/12/24 - Roaring back into Miami
I return to Miami from Europe and this happens.post30.substack.com
How was it meeting the Red pill dorks?So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
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I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
You can read about it hereHow as it meeting the Red pill dorks?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I briefly looked at Michael Sartain and it looks like his program resembles a club promoter lifestyle a lot.So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
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I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
Seems none of these gals who you've acquainted yourself with have shared a fate similar to that of Jane Margolis, Jesse. This in and of itself is exceptionally commendableMontreal trip
3 dates
2 lays
All on my blog
Tourist frame, or "Life experience frame" is real. The girls that have travelled or somehow are life experienced are more comfortable in themselves and simply not timid and scared. I get the furthest with these two types of girls. This is the danger of not being in a larger city, the girls have locked themselves.One guy I know told me about the "Tourist Frame" in Miami. The frame is that tourists are fun, more likely to try new things, and not stuckup prudes like the locals are. He is a fun guy with an interesting life and in most cases, only tourists are cool enough to break into that frame. Locals CAN break into his cool life if he approaches them and they are nice, engaging, and chatty with him. Then, they are different from the other locals and get to be a part of his cool tribe.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.Alright dudes, it's been quite a while. I have not logged in here since October but I guess after some point, you do want to come back when you get bored or have some downtime. As @CornbreadFed said, everyone comes back. I am not even sure what state this forum is in but I have to say, I changed a ton in these past few months.
I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
Can you bump that thread? I got some more opinions to share but I lost where the thread is lolGood to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.
The thread where you made a name for yourself on this forum was
Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school
In general, we don't discuss field reports enough.
I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.Sweden trip was not at all ideal which I will write about. 2024 took me to some lows but after months of recovering, I come back in 2025.
Beautiful country but unfortunately, my trip was filled with lack of sleep on a crappy flight and I had to burn days just to catch up on sleep.I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.