CornbreadFed
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Everyone comes back
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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So who were you before?
CornbreadFed
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Rollo Tamassi
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He a corny dresser, I can see the resemblance.
CornbreadFed
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@Jesse Pinkman departure isn't sitting well with me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!
4/12/24 - Roaring back into Miami
I return to Miami from Europe and this happens.
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Jesse Pinkman
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Got another SNL this weekend as well.And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!
4/12/24 - Roaring back into Miami
I return to Miami from Europe and this happens.
I will talk more about what actually changed.
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So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
Solomon
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How was it meeting the Red pill dorks?So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
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You can read about it here
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I briefly looked at Michael Sartain and it looks like his program resembles a club promoter lifestyle a lot.So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
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Montreal trip
3 dates
2 lays
All on my blog
3 dates
2 lays
All on my blog
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Seems none of these gals who you've acquainted yourself with have shared a fate similar to that of Jane Margolis, Jesse. This in and of itself is exceptionally commendable
anonymous12345
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Tourist frame, or "Life experience frame" is real. The girls that have travelled or somehow are life experienced are more comfortable in themselves and simply not timid and scared. I get the furthest with these two types of girls. This is the danger of not being in a larger city, the girls have locked themselves.
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Alright dudes, it's been quite a while. I have not logged in here since October but I guess after some point, you do want to come back when you get bored or have some downtime. As @CornbreadFed said, everyone comes back. I am not even sure what state this forum is in but I have to say, I changed a ton in these past few months.
Life has been on the right track after 2024 which was arguably one of the worst years in game for me. I think me being unemployed had a ton to do with it but my Sweden trip was not at all ideal which I will write about. 2024 took me to some lows but after months of recovering, I come back in 2025.
I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
Life has been on the right track after 2024 which was arguably one of the worst years in game for me. I think me being unemployed had a ton to do with it but my Sweden trip was not at all ideal which I will write about. 2024 took me to some lows but after months of recovering, I come back in 2025.
I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Good to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.
The thread where you made a name for yourself on this forum was
Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school
In general, we don't discuss field reports enough.
Jesse Pinkman
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Can you bump that thread? I got some more opinions to share but I lost where the thread is lol
CornbreadFed
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I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.
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Beautiful country but unfortunately, my trip was filled with lack of sleep on a crappy flight and I had to burn days just to catch up on sleep.
All I know is after that trip it was downhill for a while. Screw it I am going to update my blog reflecting on that.
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After a long break of months, I finally did it and went out this past weekend. Granted it was under the excuse of having friends that wanted to hang out. I will write more about social life, cold approach, and that happy medium. Going out solo is a pain.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.