Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jerkin' it: yay or nay?

Jaxon

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Do you guys think jerking off does more harm or good with your direct success with women? I see positives and negatives:

The good: Short term entertainment, relaxes you, helps you to go longer later, burns a few calories.

The bad: Don't you have something better you could be doing? Contributes to you focusing on a crush or some other hot chick in your mind's fantasy rather than reality...and quality lotion isn't exactly cheap these days :p

So what do you think, does jerkin' it help or hinder your success with women?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lust

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For a personal experiment, I didn't jerk off for 3 and a half weeks. 40 days.

I found that I was a lot more energetic, and somewhat motivated to go out.

Smeh.

BTW. There is a MASSIVE masturbation thread, use you're eyes man, or use the search button before making a thread.
 

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Yea. helps to blow off steam when u're girl is on her cycle.
 

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It's natural. Don't worry about it. Just don't give away all your energy to it. Keep some for the real world.
 

Holland

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It's all about balance. For the most part I say nay, because you should focus on other things but if you haven't got some fuccks going on for 1-2 weeks, I say yay, have some fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jaxon

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You know what would be great is if you burned like 200 calories every time you blew your load. Think of what great shape most of us would be in!:crackup:
 

young_gun

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I used to do it all the time and it was really hard to beat the habit, but I noticed that when I didn't do it for a long time (2-3 weeks at a time) my success with girls would skyrocket. After I beat off I can't really hold eye contact with people and for some reason I can't really hold conversations with people as well. And the weirdest thing is, I hardly ever smile when I just did it, but I smile all the time when I haven't done it for a while.
 

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Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
 

young_gun

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smooth guy said:
Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
Probably.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Jacking off alot makes your wee wee smaller. (Not dramaticly..) The more you ejaculate the less blood flow goes to your penis. So, the less you jerk off, more blood flow is sent there. And the more blood your penis can hold. The bigger it will be.
 
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