"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jerkin' it: yay or nay?

Jaxon

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Do you guys think jerking off does more harm or good with your direct success with women? I see positives and negatives:

The good: Short term entertainment, relaxes you, helps you to go longer later, burns a few calories.

The bad: Don't you have something better you could be doing? Contributes to you focusing on a crush or some other hot chick in your mind's fantasy rather than reality...and quality lotion isn't exactly cheap these days :p

So what do you think, does jerkin' it help or hinder your success with women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lust

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For a personal experiment, I didn't jerk off for 3 and a half weeks. 40 days.

I found that I was a lot more energetic, and somewhat motivated to go out.

Smeh.

BTW. There is a MASSIVE masturbation thread, use you're eyes man, or use the search button before making a thread.
 

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Yea. helps to blow off steam when u're girl is on her cycle.
 

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It's natural. Don't worry about it. Just don't give away all your energy to it. Keep some for the real world.
 

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It's all about balance. For the most part I say nay, because you should focus on other things but if you haven't got some fuccks going on for 1-2 weeks, I say yay, have some fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jaxon

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You know what would be great is if you burned like 200 calories every time you blew your load. Think of what great shape most of us would be in!:crackup:
 

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I used to do it all the time and it was really hard to beat the habit, but I noticed that when I didn't do it for a long time (2-3 weeks at a time) my success with girls would skyrocket. After I beat off I can't really hold eye contact with people and for some reason I can't really hold conversations with people as well. And the weirdest thing is, I hardly ever smile when I just did it, but I smile all the time when I haven't done it for a while.
 

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Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
 

young_gun

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smooth guy said:
Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
Probably.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Jacking off alot makes your wee wee smaller. (Not dramaticly..) The more you ejaculate the less blood flow goes to your penis. So, the less you jerk off, more blood flow is sent there. And the more blood your penis can hold. The bigger it will be.
 
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