"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jerkin' it: yay or nay?

Jaxon

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Do you guys think jerking off does more harm or good with your direct success with women? I see positives and negatives:

The good: Short term entertainment, relaxes you, helps you to go longer later, burns a few calories.

The bad: Don't you have something better you could be doing? Contributes to you focusing on a crush or some other hot chick in your mind's fantasy rather than reality...and quality lotion isn't exactly cheap these days :p

So what do you think, does jerkin' it help or hinder your success with women?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lust

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For a personal experiment, I didn't jerk off for 3 and a half weeks. 40 days.

I found that I was a lot more energetic, and somewhat motivated to go out.

Smeh.

BTW. There is a MASSIVE masturbation thread, use you're eyes man, or use the search button before making a thread.
 

FlyBoyFoy

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Yea. helps to blow off steam when u're girl is on her cycle.
 

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It's natural. Don't worry about it. Just don't give away all your energy to it. Keep some for the real world.
 

Holland

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It's all about balance. For the most part I say nay, because you should focus on other things but if you haven't got some fuccks going on for 1-2 weeks, I say yay, have some fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jaxon

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You know what would be great is if you burned like 200 calories every time you blew your load. Think of what great shape most of us would be in!:crackup:
 

young_gun

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I used to do it all the time and it was really hard to beat the habit, but I noticed that when I didn't do it for a long time (2-3 weeks at a time) my success with girls would skyrocket. After I beat off I can't really hold eye contact with people and for some reason I can't really hold conversations with people as well. And the weirdest thing is, I hardly ever smile when I just did it, but I smile all the time when I haven't done it for a while.
 

smooth guy

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Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
 

young_gun

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smooth guy said:
Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
Probably.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Jacking off alot makes your wee wee smaller. (Not dramaticly..) The more you ejaculate the less blood flow goes to your penis. So, the less you jerk off, more blood flow is sent there. And the more blood your penis can hold. The bigger it will be.
 
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