"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jerkin' it: yay or nay?

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Do you guys think jerking off does more harm or good with your direct success with women? I see positives and negatives:

The good: Short term entertainment, relaxes you, helps you to go longer later, burns a few calories.

The bad: Don't you have something better you could be doing? Contributes to you focusing on a crush or some other hot chick in your mind's fantasy rather than reality...and quality lotion isn't exactly cheap these days :p

So what do you think, does jerkin' it help or hinder your success with women?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lust

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For a personal experiment, I didn't jerk off for 3 and a half weeks. 40 days.

I found that I was a lot more energetic, and somewhat motivated to go out.

Smeh.

BTW. There is a MASSIVE masturbation thread, use you're eyes man, or use the search button before making a thread.
 

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Yea. helps to blow off steam when u're girl is on her cycle.
 

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It's natural. Don't worry about it. Just don't give away all your energy to it. Keep some for the real world.
 

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It's all about balance. For the most part I say nay, because you should focus on other things but if you haven't got some fuccks going on for 1-2 weeks, I say yay, have some fun.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jaxon

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You know what would be great is if you burned like 200 calories every time you blew your load. Think of what great shape most of us would be in!:crackup:
 

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I used to do it all the time and it was really hard to beat the habit, but I noticed that when I didn't do it for a long time (2-3 weeks at a time) my success with girls would skyrocket. After I beat off I can't really hold eye contact with people and for some reason I can't really hold conversations with people as well. And the weirdest thing is, I hardly ever smile when I just did it, but I smile all the time when I haven't done it for a while.
 

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Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
 

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smooth guy said:
Meh it's just the mindset. The biggest down side I think is just energy loss, you lose a lot of energy when you ejaculate and thats why your performance with women might be affected.
Probably.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Jacking off alot makes your wee wee smaller. (Not dramaticly..) The more you ejaculate the less blood flow goes to your penis. So, the less you jerk off, more blood flow is sent there. And the more blood your penis can hold. The bigger it will be.
 
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