Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And she still married a 50 years old school teacher , that at most is a 7Dude, she got $38 Billion in the divorce.
Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “She wanted to find someone that shared her passion and mission. This transcends looks and he is attractive to HER . That's all that matters.
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I agree. Guys are visual creatures and we often think in terms of a guy's mindset and not a women's. That's the problem I see often.Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “
if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction
looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well let's define "better", if it comes to financial stability, it's hard to beat Jeff Bezos but surely for her "better" is more holistic. This guy is probably a better mate for her circumstances which like @Hank Moody stated, money is not a factor anymore.Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7
this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
That only matters when they get old and become undateable. When they’re younger and good looking you just have to be Chad, never mind the fancy hobbies and being nice.Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “
if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction
looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
If a woman remarried it is because she despised her ex husband . If a guy remarried it is because he adored his ex wifeWhat amazes me is how quick some women get married again. It’s like they just can’t stand being single.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Exactly. She have already scored and now she doesn't need that part of the game anymore.Dude, she got $38 Billion in the divorce.
She has no need for money now.Besides, she already got some good money, she's also not a pretty good looking woman for her age. I think that after the stress of living with a rich man and having to attend all the business stuff, the only thing she wants is a peaceful life with a true passionate connection with someone.
Don't forget to give credit where it's due: Oscar Wilde.If a woman remarried it is because she despised her ex husband . If a guy remarried it is because he adored his ex wife
Women "mentally" divorced their husbands long before they officially do it. In this case, I'm 80% sure she sucked this dude's d!ck on a weekly basis even before the paperwork was done.He was a teacher at a private school attended by her kids (as an aside, who wants to bet that they were banging even before she divorced Bezos?) You could say that she met him through her circle. If there was a better man avaialble in her circle, she would have married that dude. It's as simple as that. As a 50-year-old billionaire, it's not like she's going to go on tinder dates...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You could say that againWomen "mentally" divorced their husbands long before they officially do it. In this case, I'm 80% sure she sucked this dude's d!ck on a weekly basis even before the paperwork was done.
He looks more like a 3 in recent pictures.Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7
this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
She is literally giving almost all of it away.Exactly. She have already scored and now she doesn't need that part of the game anymore.