She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And she still married a 50 years old school teacher , that at most is a 7Dude, she got $38 Billion in the divorce.
Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “She wanted to find someone that shared her passion and mission. This transcends looks and he is attractive to HER . That's all that matters.
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I agree. Guys are visual creatures and we often think in terms of a guy's mindset and not a women's. That's the problem I see often.Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “
if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction
looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well let's define "better", if it comes to financial stability, it's hard to beat Jeff Bezos but surely for her "better" is more holistic. This guy is probably a better mate for her circumstances which like @Hank Moody stated, money is not a factor anymore.Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7
this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
That only matters when they get old and become undateable. When they’re younger and good looking you just have to be Chad, never mind the fancy hobbies and being nice.Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “
if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction
looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
If a woman remarried it is because she despised her ex husband . If a guy remarried it is because he adored his ex wifeWhat amazes me is how quick some women get married again. It’s like they just can’t stand being single.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Exactly. She have already scored and now she doesn't need that part of the game anymore.Dude, she got $38 Billion in the divorce.
She has no need for money now.Besides, she already got some good money, she's also not a pretty good looking woman for her age. I think that after the stress of living with a rich man and having to attend all the business stuff, the only thing she wants is a peaceful life with a true passionate connection with someone.
Don't forget to give credit where it's due: Oscar Wilde.If a woman remarried it is because she despised her ex husband . If a guy remarried it is because he adored his ex wife
Women "mentally" divorced their husbands long before they officially do it. In this case, I'm 80% sure she sucked this dude's d!ck on a weekly basis even before the paperwork was done.He was a teacher at a private school attended by her kids (as an aside, who wants to bet that they were banging even before she divorced Bezos?) You could say that she met him through her circle. If there was a better man avaialble in her circle, she would have married that dude. It's as simple as that. As a 50-year-old billionaire, it's not like she's going to go on tinder dates...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You could say that againWomen "mentally" divorced their husbands long before they officially do it. In this case, I'm 80% sure she sucked this dude's d!ck on a weekly basis even before the paperwork was done.
He looks more like a 3 in recent pictures.Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7
this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
She is literally giving almost all of it away.Exactly. She have already scored and now she doesn't need that part of the game anymore.