"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jeff bezos ex wife married a school teacher

Bigpapa

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Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7

this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude, she got $38 Billion in the divorce.
And she still married a 50 years old school teacher , that at most is a 7

sure it is an improvement from Jeff bezos , but still , she is not ugly either so for sure she could have got someone better
 

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She wanted to find someone that shared her passion and mission. This transcends looks and he is attractive to HER . That's all that matters.

Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “

if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction

looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
 

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Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “

if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction

looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
I agree. Guys are visual creatures and we often think in terms of a guy's mindset and not a women's. That's the problem I see often.

But either way, he's going to be her b1tch. LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7

this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
Well let's define "better", if it comes to financial stability, it's hard to beat Jeff Bezos but surely for her "better" is more holistic. This guy is probably a better mate for her circumstances which like @Hank Moody stated, money is not a factor anymore.

The bottom line is "better" or "beautiful" is subjective so while anyone looking from the outside might ask 'who is better than Jeff Bezos' to her this guy is.

Modern Man Advice
 

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Ye , but more or less this is a very good example in terms of “ looks is not the only thing that matters “

if you have a cool lifestyle and become a really nice human being , then this can help you out in the quest called seduction

looks only puts the foot in the door, the rest depends on how you are as a person
That only matters when they get old and become undateable. When they’re younger and good looking you just have to be Chad, never mind the fancy hobbies and being nice.
 

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It's not always about money or looks.

Remember, women are also human beings, she will still try to find the connection, the similar interests and someone that can make her feel the butterflies on the stomach.

Besides, she already got some good money, she's also not a pretty good looking woman for her age. I think that after the stress of living with a rich man and having to attend all the business stuff, the only thing she wants is a peaceful life with a true passionate connection with someone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MacKenzie Scott Tuttle (real name of Bezos' ex wife) got re-married within 2 years of her divorce. The divorce was announced in early 2019 and finalized in July 2019.

Considering that the pandemic hit in March 2020 and reduced dating options for everyone, he was in her orbit before the pandemic. He taught at the private school where the Bezos kids attended. I would call that a social circle or workplace connection and not a cold approach.

She's also pushing 50 and not that attractive though she'd be considered semi-attractive for 45-54 year old women since she's not overweight.

Besides, she already got some good money, she's also not a pretty good looking woman for her age. I think that after the stress of living with a rich man and having to attend all the business stuff, the only thing she wants is a peaceful life with a true passionate connection with someone.
She has no need for money now.

Attending what business stuff? I am a businessman and have had few business events to attend over the years. Most of the business events that I've had were networking events with no spouses/significant others present. Internal company functions like holiday parties have mostly been employees only and no spouses/significant others.
 

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He was a teacher at a private school attended by her kids (as an aside, who wants to bet that they were banging even before she divorced Bezos?) You could say that she met him through her circle. If there was a better man avaialble in her circle, she would have married that dude. It's as simple as that. As a 50-year-old billionaire, it's not like she's going to go on tinder dates...
 

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He was a teacher at a private school attended by her kids (as an aside, who wants to bet that they were banging even before she divorced Bezos?) You could say that she met him through her circle. If there was a better man avaialble in her circle, she would have married that dude. It's as simple as that. As a 50-year-old billionaire, it's not like she's going to go on tinder dates...
Women "mentally" divorced their husbands long before they officially do it. In this case, I'm 80% sure she sucked this dude's d!ck on a weekly basis even before the paperwork was done.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Apparently , Scott Mckeznie , Jeff Bezos ex wife , married a 50 years old school teacher that at best is a 7

this should be quite a big proof that women not necessarily are looking for something better than before
He looks more like a 3 in recent pictures.
 

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She's got all the money in the world. Once that part gets taken care of it gets back to the basics even more, as she's not seeking security. She simply went and married someone who made her tingle. This was very predictable.
 
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