"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm going to do some searches on the Internet, but I'd figure I'd see if any fellow DJ's had some suggestions as to where to take this girl from Jackson, MS.

I've never been there before, met her in my own home turf. She's coming to see me this weekend on her way to Destin for the weekend- (I'll meet up with her the following day there, as I already have a date that Friday night. )

Budget - not including gas - I guess I can handle 100 bucks or so.
Preferences - comedy clubs, bar and grills, (especially the bar part)

I was thinking about going to see The Friday Night Gigolos on November 18th,(Starkville) but that may be too long to wait. She'd be patient, of course. Her interest level is super high now, but who knows when that may fade, she might meet another DJ, blah, blah, blah.

As an alternative, any of you folks have any events that you know about going on in or near Jackson?

thanks,
BP
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If possible, why not go to Meridian?
 

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
What's in Meridian?
Malls, movie theater (in the Mall), lots of food places (Ryans, China Buffet, Lone Star) and more places to go.
 

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Although it's true, I will have to eat sometime, I'm quite certain that Jackson also has malls and restaurants.


I was thinking something along the lines of a comedy show or a special event, like a special viewing of Tutankhamen, or whatever else Jackson may have to offer.

It's my experience that I plainly talk too much and would like an event to be the focus of our time together.

Thanks, though.

BP
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Comedy club is a great idea. I took a girl to one recently and had a blast. I had never been to a comedy club before.

It was great. I'll definitely go back sometime.
 
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