"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Pappy

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I'm going to do some searches on the Internet, but I'd figure I'd see if any fellow DJ's had some suggestions as to where to take this girl from Jackson, MS.

I've never been there before, met her in my own home turf. She's coming to see me this weekend on her way to Destin for the weekend- (I'll meet up with her the following day there, as I already have a date that Friday night. )

Budget - not including gas - I guess I can handle 100 bucks or so.
Preferences - comedy clubs, bar and grills, (especially the bar part)

I was thinking about going to see The Friday Night Gigolos on November 18th,(Starkville) but that may be too long to wait. She'd be patient, of course. Her interest level is super high now, but who knows when that may fade, she might meet another DJ, blah, blah, blah.

As an alternative, any of you folks have any events that you know about going on in or near Jackson?

thanks,
BP
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If possible, why not go to Meridian?
 

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
What's in Meridian?
Malls, movie theater (in the Mall), lots of food places (Ryans, China Buffet, Lone Star) and more places to go.
 

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Although it's true, I will have to eat sometime, I'm quite certain that Jackson also has malls and restaurants.


I was thinking something along the lines of a comedy show or a special event, like a special viewing of Tutankhamen, or whatever else Jackson may have to offer.

It's my experience that I plainly talk too much and would like an event to be the focus of our time together.

Thanks, though.

BP
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Comedy club is a great idea. I took a girl to one recently and had a blast. I had never been to a comedy club before.

It was great. I'll definitely go back sometime.
 
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