"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Big Pappy

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I'm going to do some searches on the Internet, but I'd figure I'd see if any fellow DJ's had some suggestions as to where to take this girl from Jackson, MS.

I've never been there before, met her in my own home turf. She's coming to see me this weekend on her way to Destin for the weekend- (I'll meet up with her the following day there, as I already have a date that Friday night. )

Budget - not including gas - I guess I can handle 100 bucks or so.
Preferences - comedy clubs, bar and grills, (especially the bar part)

I was thinking about going to see The Friday Night Gigolos on November 18th,(Starkville) but that may be too long to wait. She'd be patient, of course. Her interest level is super high now, but who knows when that may fade, she might meet another DJ, blah, blah, blah.

As an alternative, any of you folks have any events that you know about going on in or near Jackson?

thanks,
BP
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If possible, why not go to Meridian?
 

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
What's in Meridian?
Malls, movie theater (in the Mall), lots of food places (Ryans, China Buffet, Lone Star) and more places to go.
 

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Although it's true, I will have to eat sometime, I'm quite certain that Jackson also has malls and restaurants.


I was thinking something along the lines of a comedy show or a special event, like a special viewing of Tutankhamen, or whatever else Jackson may have to offer.

It's my experience that I plainly talk too much and would like an event to be the focus of our time together.

Thanks, though.

BP
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Comedy club is a great idea. I took a girl to one recently and had a blast. I had never been to a comedy club before.

It was great. I'll definitely go back sometime.
 
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