"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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iz joining dorm hall for this semistor but im not allowed to drink will i survive?

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i never stayed in dorm before and becase of meds i cant drink alcohol for 4 months (all semistor) is it possible to survive at a dorm wid no drinking? isnt it parties every day and people getting drunk everyday??? is it possible to go to clubs and bars and not drink and have good time?? iz would i be the only sober person in the entire dorm rooms?:box:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alcohol is a crutch. I used to drink heavily and now I drink none to two-three times a month. this might be good for you.
 

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i was after i slowed my drinking down to nothing. I have my own apartment now.
Everybody is doing it, is a pretty ****ty reason to drink or to do anything. "Everyone was smoking crack out of a tin foil pipe, I had no choice" See what i mean? Get some will power.
 

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You have more fun when sober, if you have wits and a sense of humor. You can laugh at the repressed nymphos who only so much as sniff alcohol as an excuse to act like sluts, only to rationalize their experiences away the next day, you can chuckle at the stoneheads who try to convince themselves that they are having a good time because they cannot stand up straight.

If you feel as though you cannot enjoy yourself when you are at a party unless you are intoxicated, then you are in poor company.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what about being sober at bars and clubs? does anyone do that?
 

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What if the Queen had a d1ck? Would she be the king? We can what if everything to death. There is more to life than alcohol and getting drunk. If you need alcohol to have a good time, I dont know what to say to you.
 

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a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?

end of thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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_allstar said:
a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?

end of thread.
whys that? what happens there
 

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do you live with 150+ single women right now?

oh okay just checking
 
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