i never stayed in dorm before and becase of meds i cant drink alcohol for 4 months (all semistor) is it possible to survive at a dorm wid no drinking? isnt it parties every day and people getting drunk everyday??? is it possible to go to clubs and bars and not drink and have good time?? iz would i be the only sober person in the entire dorm rooms?:box:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
iz joining dorm hall for this semistor but im not allowed to drink will i survive?
- Thread starter metrhoe
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NYtomb
Don Juan
alcohol is a crutch. I used to drink heavily and now I drink none to two-three times a month. this might be good for you.
NYtomb
Don Juan
i was after i slowed my drinking down to nothing. I have my own apartment now.
Everybody is doing it, is a pretty ****ty reason to drink or to do anything. "Everyone was smoking crack out of a tin foil pipe, I had no choice" See what i mean? Get some will power.
Everybody is doing it, is a pretty ****ty reason to drink or to do anything. "Everyone was smoking crack out of a tin foil pipe, I had no choice" See what i mean? Get some will power.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
You have more fun when sober, if you have wits and a sense of humor. You can laugh at the repressed nymphos who only so much as sniff alcohol as an excuse to act like sluts, only to rationalize their experiences away the next day, you can chuckle at the stoneheads who try to convince themselves that they are having a good time because they cannot stand up straight.
If you feel as though you cannot enjoy yourself when you are at a party unless you are intoxicated, then you are in poor company.
If you feel as though you cannot enjoy yourself when you are at a party unless you are intoxicated, then you are in poor company.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NYtomb
Don Juan
What if the Queen had a d1ck? Would she be the king? We can what if everything to death. There is more to life than alcohol and getting drunk. If you need alcohol to have a good time, I dont know what to say to you.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
whys that? what happens there_allstar said:a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?
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