"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iz joining dorm hall for this semistor but im not allowed to drink will i survive?

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i never stayed in dorm before and becase of meds i cant drink alcohol for 4 months (all semistor) is it possible to survive at a dorm wid no drinking? isnt it parties every day and people getting drunk everyday??? is it possible to go to clubs and bars and not drink and have good time?? iz would i be the only sober person in the entire dorm rooms?:box:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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alcohol is a crutch. I used to drink heavily and now I drink none to two-three times a month. this might be good for you.
 

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i was after i slowed my drinking down to nothing. I have my own apartment now.
Everybody is doing it, is a pretty ****ty reason to drink or to do anything. "Everyone was smoking crack out of a tin foil pipe, I had no choice" See what i mean? Get some will power.
 

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You have more fun when sober, if you have wits and a sense of humor. You can laugh at the repressed nymphos who only so much as sniff alcohol as an excuse to act like sluts, only to rationalize their experiences away the next day, you can chuckle at the stoneheads who try to convince themselves that they are having a good time because they cannot stand up straight.

If you feel as though you cannot enjoy yourself when you are at a party unless you are intoxicated, then you are in poor company.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what about being sober at bars and clubs? does anyone do that?
 

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What if the Queen had a d1ck? Would she be the king? We can what if everything to death. There is more to life than alcohol and getting drunk. If you need alcohol to have a good time, I dont know what to say to you.
 

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a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?

end of thread.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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_allstar said:
a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?

end of thread.
whys that? what happens there
 

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do you live with 150+ single women right now?

oh okay just checking
 
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