"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iz joining dorm hall for this semistor but im not allowed to drink will i survive?

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i never stayed in dorm before and becase of meds i cant drink alcohol for 4 months (all semistor) is it possible to survive at a dorm wid no drinking? isnt it parties every day and people getting drunk everyday??? is it possible to go to clubs and bars and not drink and have good time?? iz would i be the only sober person in the entire dorm rooms?:box:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alcohol is a crutch. I used to drink heavily and now I drink none to two-three times a month. this might be good for you.
 

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i was after i slowed my drinking down to nothing. I have my own apartment now.
Everybody is doing it, is a pretty ****ty reason to drink or to do anything. "Everyone was smoking crack out of a tin foil pipe, I had no choice" See what i mean? Get some will power.
 

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You have more fun when sober, if you have wits and a sense of humor. You can laugh at the repressed nymphos who only so much as sniff alcohol as an excuse to act like sluts, only to rationalize their experiences away the next day, you can chuckle at the stoneheads who try to convince themselves that they are having a good time because they cannot stand up straight.

If you feel as though you cannot enjoy yourself when you are at a party unless you are intoxicated, then you are in poor company.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what about being sober at bars and clubs? does anyone do that?
 

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What if the Queen had a d1ck? Would she be the king? We can what if everything to death. There is more to life than alcohol and getting drunk. If you need alcohol to have a good time, I dont know what to say to you.
 

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a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?

end of thread.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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_allstar said:
a dorm is the best possible thing that can happen to you. unless its not co-ed. and what dorm isnt these days?

end of thread.
whys that? what happens there
 

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do you live with 150+ single women right now?

oh okay just checking
 
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