"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've had a enough... Not a whine thread, totally different

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How do I tell an HB2 that I work with that I'm not interested?

I like her and her friends as just that. Friends. She seems to get the wrong idea, I've actually caught her asking advice from a co-worker on how to sarge me. And one of her friends is actually cool and I don't want to alienate her because I rejected their ugly duckling.

I need to do this without being a complete d!ck, this job is so important to me. Although they work in a separate department, and each department and division/team seem to ignore each other.

Help me... Help me please, I promise not to troll anymore.

I wouldn't even let her give me head that's how bad it is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just tell her you think she's really hot and everything but you aren't that into barn yard animals.
 
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I'm sure a lot of people have. They probably just do it like men, and don't ask peers how to do it.
 
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So you haven't heard of 'When keeping it real goes wrong'? Or is stupidity blinding you to the fact that good jobs are hard to come by.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just tell her your a cool woman but your not type i can vibe with you
 
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edit: post deleted, didn't realize this was a joke thread
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tell her that she is too nice and someone is gonna be a lucky guy to get her one day. LJBF works just as good. Or you could set up a date and than flake on her hoping that she gets the hint. Tell her that you love her as a little sister and it would be gross to date her. P.S. Where do you find these HB2's? And what kind of creature is an hb2?
 
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According to your post the priorities are:

1)Keep the job therefore excluse any option that would create drama

2)You wanna still be friend with her and her friends so same at nr.1

The best thing to do would be saying that you're already dating an other girl.
NOT saying that you have a girlfriend because they're gonna investigate and gossip and possible find the truth and consider you a liar,even make fun of you.
Or even disturb any possible future date with other girls from work.

So keep in easy and simple,make a plan that you can change according to the events, to say that you have a girlfriend doesnt allow you to change the plan.


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P.S. Where do you find these HB2's? And what kind of creature is an hb2?
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They are very rare,as much as hb 9-10 are, you probably saw one when you were a kid and watched "the goonies".
Sloth is a perfect example of such creature.
 
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