i've got this problem sometimes. when i'm hangin out with my friends or my cousins i worry that im not being fun enough and that they wont want to hang with me in the future if im not entertaining enough. i worry alot about uncomfortable silences. i wish i could just let go when im in social situations. i usually have people to hang with but i go through these lonely stretches when it seems like nobody is calling me to hang out. anyone else go thru this? any advice?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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