"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i've got issues

connor32

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i've got this problem sometimes. when i'm hangin out with my friends or my cousins i worry that im not being fun enough and that they wont want to hang with me in the future if im not entertaining enough. i worry alot about uncomfortable silences. i wish i could just let go when im in social situations. i usually have people to hang with but i go through these lonely stretches when it seems like nobody is calling me to hang out. anyone else go thru this? any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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connor32

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your right. i do. but most of the time i'm pretty sociable with co-workers,friends,and i'm occasionaly pretty smooth with girls. i've just got this huge fear of loneliness. i've just got to learn to let go! the irony is i have a 6.5-7 that wants to hang with me right now, a decent circle of friends, and close family.
 
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