i've got this problem sometimes. when i'm hangin out with my friends or my cousins i worry that im not being fun enough and that they wont want to hang with me in the future if im not entertaining enough. i worry alot about uncomfortable silences. i wish i could just let go when im in social situations. i usually have people to hang with but i go through these lonely stretches when it seems like nobody is calling me to hang out. anyone else go thru this? any advice?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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