"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i've got issues

connor32

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i've got this problem sometimes. when i'm hangin out with my friends or my cousins i worry that im not being fun enough and that they wont want to hang with me in the future if im not entertaining enough. i worry alot about uncomfortable silences. i wish i could just let go when im in social situations. i usually have people to hang with but i go through these lonely stretches when it seems like nobody is calling me to hang out. anyone else go thru this? any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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connor32

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your right. i do. but most of the time i'm pretty sociable with co-workers,friends,and i'm occasionaly pretty smooth with girls. i've just got this huge fear of loneliness. i've just got to learn to let go! the irony is i have a 6.5-7 that wants to hang with me right now, a decent circle of friends, and close family.
 
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