"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its this guy i like

AdiffrentTypeOfGirl

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so its this guy i like who is so awesome he's smart cute tall funny goofy and we get along good. but its certain things that bug me for one iam 17 i will be 18 in a month and he's 20 he in college he has his life together and has a job just like me but he seems a little bit clingy and i didnt expect him to be this way because of how cute he looks i thought he would be used to having attractive women around him. he says he misses me all the time but we havent really had any dates its times when iam at his job but i really dont count them as dates we talk everyday on the phone and fall asleep together too hes a really cool person i guess i just wanna know am i over thinkin it i already think he flirts with other people because his job deals with alot of people what should i do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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goundra

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relax, you are 17. you have 20 years before have to worry about kids, assuming that you want them and dont want to adopt. Sex with you is illegal, anyway, so it will be a while before you have much of a 'hook" for him.
 

DanZy

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goundra said:
relax, you are 17. you have 20 years before have to worry about kids, assuming that you want them and dont want to adopt. Sex with you is illegal, anyway, so it will be a while before you have much of a 'hook" for him.
What country do you live in? 16 is age of consent in most countries. Why can't she just marry a Filipino man unseen? I'm sure there's tons of hot men from 3rd world countries just aching to become prison guards
 

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AdiffrentTypeOfGirl said:
so its this guy i like who is so awesome he's smart cute tall funny goofy and we get along good. but its certain things that bug me for one iam 17 i will be 18 in a month and he's 20 he in college he has his life together and has a job just like me but he seems a little bit clingy and i didnt expect him to be this way because of how cute he looks i thought he would be used to having attractive women around him. he says he misses me all the time but we havent really had any dates its times when iam at his job but i really dont count them as dates we talk everyday on the phone and fall asleep together too hes a really cool person i guess i just wanna know am i over thinkin it i already think he flirts with other people because his job deals with alot of people what should i do?
Thanks to texting, this is how western women communicate today. Sad, isn't it?
 

Vidrio

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goundra said:
relax, you are 17. you have 20 years before have to worry about kids, assuming that you want them and dont want to adopt. Sex with you is illegal, anyway, so it will be a while before you have much of a 'hook" for him.
If she's in America, its only illegal in 12 states.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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typical

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Atom Smasher said:
Thanks to texting, this is how western women communicate today. Sad, isn't it?
I Cracked up at this.

To the OP, wow get some spelling and grammar in that mind dump of a post of your's and maybe we'll answer your question.
 

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Stay in school, get your hormones under control and forget this guy.

You're just a puppy. Work on YOUR life.
 

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haHA! nice troll! pretend to be a girl.....post on a dating forum for men.....
Have popcorn and soda ready...watch as AFCs and idiots respond to you like flies attracted to a pile of sh!t
 

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Ever heard of a period? Enroll in a grammar class then get back to us.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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