"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so its this guy i like who is so awesome he's smart cute tall funny goofy and we get along good. but its certain things that bug me for one iam 17 i will be 18 in a month and he's 20 he in college he has his life together and has a job just like me but he seems a little bit clingy and i didnt expect him to be this way because of how cute he looks i thought he would be used to having attractive women around him. he says he misses me all the time but we havent really had any dates its times when iam at his job but i really dont count them as dates we talk everyday on the phone and fall asleep together too hes a really cool person i guess i just wanna know am i over thinkin it i already think he flirts with other people because his job deals with alot of people what should i do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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relax, you are 17. you have 20 years before have to worry about kids, assuming that you want them and dont want to adopt. Sex with you is illegal, anyway, so it will be a while before you have much of a 'hook" for him.
 

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goundra said:
relax, you are 17. you have 20 years before have to worry about kids, assuming that you want them and dont want to adopt. Sex with you is illegal, anyway, so it will be a while before you have much of a 'hook" for him.
What country do you live in? 16 is age of consent in most countries. Why can't she just marry a Filipino man unseen? I'm sure there's tons of hot men from 3rd world countries just aching to become prison guards
 

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AdiffrentTypeOfGirl said:
so its this guy i like who is so awesome he's smart cute tall funny goofy and we get along good. but its certain things that bug me for one iam 17 i will be 18 in a month and he's 20 he in college he has his life together and has a job just like me but he seems a little bit clingy and i didnt expect him to be this way because of how cute he looks i thought he would be used to having attractive women around him. he says he misses me all the time but we havent really had any dates its times when iam at his job but i really dont count them as dates we talk everyday on the phone and fall asleep together too hes a really cool person i guess i just wanna know am i over thinkin it i already think he flirts with other people because his job deals with alot of people what should i do?
Thanks to texting, this is how western women communicate today. Sad, isn't it?
 

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goundra said:
relax, you are 17. you have 20 years before have to worry about kids, assuming that you want them and dont want to adopt. Sex with you is illegal, anyway, so it will be a while before you have much of a 'hook" for him.
If she's in America, its only illegal in 12 states.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Atom Smasher said:
Thanks to texting, this is how western women communicate today. Sad, isn't it?
I Cracked up at this.

To the OP, wow get some spelling and grammar in that mind dump of a post of your's and maybe we'll answer your question.
 

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Stay in school, get your hormones under control and forget this guy.

You're just a puppy. Work on YOUR life.
 

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haHA! nice troll! pretend to be a girl.....post on a dating forum for men.....
Have popcorn and soda ready...watch as AFCs and idiots respond to you like flies attracted to a pile of sh!t
 

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Ever heard of a period? Enroll in a grammar class then get back to us.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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