LandingWood
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Not to **** your coworkers when you see them 6 days out of the week. Anyone have success/fail stories about ****ing coworkers?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
its so hard
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
abe0
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Yeah...do not eat and sh*t in the same water hole. It will almost always not end well and it will feel very uncomfortable in the long run to work at a place when your x is talking crap about you daily to your other coworkers...even your boss. Don't go there. Abe
LandingWood
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I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LandingWood
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I'm gonna be honest. I'm inconsistent when it comes to cold approaches because sometimes I'm just not in the mood to do them yet I force myself anyway. And I can tell that the girls can tell that I have an agenda. I come off as creepy as anyone would. But then when I'm just out somewhere everything flows naturally. This inconsistency makes me nervous so I don't do many cold approaches I just let **** happen. Which is obviously a bad way to live in general let alone game.Vice said:
MackNation
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I currently have a friends with benefits situation going with a girl at my work. Long story short: She's about 7-7.5 18 years old, amazing body. We banged a couple times, she got mad I didn't want a relationship, she didn't really talk to me for a couple months but I kept flirting with her like I always did, eventually she starts asking me to hang out again, I tell her I'm not interested in more than just sex, she says okay, we start fooling around again. Fast forward ~6 months, she asks if there's a possibility of more happening, I say no, she gets mad, couple days later hits me up again to hang out but I cancelled on her last minute since I feel kinda bad she's wanting more from me and I'm not interested in her for more than that sweet booty. That was a couple days ago, she still texts me randomly here and there but I don't respond often.
I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.
Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.
Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wD9_Sil8CDU4north1side2 said: