"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not to **** your coworkers when you see them 6 days out of the week. Anyone have success/fail stories about ****ing coworkers?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah...do not eat and sh*t in the same water hole. It will almost always not end well and it will feel very uncomfortable in the long run to work at a place when your x is talking crap about you daily to your other coworkers...even your boss. Don't go there. Abe
 

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If you're looking at coworkers as dating prospects, I HIGHLY suggest you work on your skill set. Keep your work life separate from your sex life. That is an order.
 

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Big mistake. Sexual harassment suit on the horizon. Never worth it IMO
 

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I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LandingWood said:
I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
If you have enough game, take it outside of the workplace.
 

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Vice said:
If you have enough game, take it outside of the workplace.
I'm gonna be honest. I'm inconsistent when it comes to cold approaches because sometimes I'm just not in the mood to do them yet I force myself anyway. And I can tell that the girls can tell that I have an agenda. I come off as creepy as anyone would. But then when I'm just out somewhere everything flows naturally. This inconsistency makes me nervous so I don't do many cold approaches I just let **** happen. Which is obviously a bad way to live in general let alone game.
 

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I currently have a friends with benefits situation going with a girl at my work. Long story short: She's about 7-7.5 18 years old, amazing body. We banged a couple times, she got mad I didn't want a relationship, she didn't really talk to me for a couple months but I kept flirting with her like I always did, eventually she starts asking me to hang out again, I tell her I'm not interested in more than just sex, she says okay, we start fooling around again. Fast forward ~6 months, she asks if there's a possibility of more happening, I say no, she gets mad, couple days later hits me up again to hang out but I cancelled on her last minute since I feel kinda bad she's wanting more from me and I'm not interested in her for more than that sweet booty. That was a couple days ago, she still texts me randomly here and there but I don't respond often.

I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.

Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
 

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LandingWood said:
I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
Hmm. You might look like an 8 but if it goes tits up you will feel like a 0.
 

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MackNation said:
I currently have a friends with benefits situation going with a girl at my work. Long story short: She's about 7-7.5 18 years old, amazing body. We banged a couple times, she got mad I didn't want a relationship, she didn't really talk to me for a couple months but I kept flirting with her like I always did, eventually she starts asking me to hang out again, I tell her I'm not interested in more than just sex, she says okay, we start fooling around again. Fast forward ~6 months, she asks if there's a possibility of more happening, I say no, she gets mad, couple days later hits me up again to hang out but I cancelled on her last minute since I feel kinda bad she's wanting more from me and I'm not interested in her for more than that sweet booty. That was a couple days ago, she still texts me randomly here and there but I don't respond often.

I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.

Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
This. If this is just a minimum wage dead end job then fvck every employee if you want to. You're only 18 so I doubt this job is serious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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4north1side2 said:
****ed a few coworkers and I ****ed them all at my place of employment. Never had trouble out of any of them. :rock: The only men who get in trouble with women at the work place are men who don't know women.
wallmart?
 
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