LandingWood
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Not to **** your coworkers when you see them 6 days out of the week. Anyone have success/fail stories about ****ing coworkers?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you have enough game, take it outside of the workplace.LandingWood said:I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
I'm gonna be honest. I'm inconsistent when it comes to cold approaches because sometimes I'm just not in the mood to do them yet I force myself anyway. And I can tell that the girls can tell that I have an agenda. I come off as creepy as anyone would. But then when I'm just out somewhere everything flows naturally. This inconsistency makes me nervous so I don't do many cold approaches I just let **** happen. Which is obviously a bad way to live in general let alone game.Vice said:If you have enough game, take it outside of the workplace.
Hmm. You might look like an 8 but if it goes tits up you will feel like a 0.LandingWood said:I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
This. If this is just a minimum wage dead end job then fvck every employee if you want to. You're only 18 so I doubt this job is serious.MackNation said:I currently have a friends with benefits situation going with a girl at my work. Long story short: She's about 7-7.5 18 years old, amazing body. We banged a couple times, she got mad I didn't want a relationship, she didn't really talk to me for a couple months but I kept flirting with her like I always did, eventually she starts asking me to hang out again, I tell her I'm not interested in more than just sex, she says okay, we start fooling around again. Fast forward ~6 months, she asks if there's a possibility of more happening, I say no, she gets mad, couple days later hits me up again to hang out but I cancelled on her last minute since I feel kinda bad she's wanting more from me and I'm not interested in her for more than that sweet booty. That was a couple days ago, she still texts me randomly here and there but I don't respond often.
I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.
Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wallmart?4north1side2 said:****ed a few coworkers and I ****ed them all at my place of employment. Never had trouble out of any of them. :rock: The only men who get in trouble with women at the work place are men who don't know women.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wD9_Sil8CDU4north1side2 said:****ed a few coworkers and I ****ed them all at my place of employment. Never had trouble out of any of them. :rock: The only men who get in trouble with women at the work place are men who don't know women.