LandingWood
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Not to **** your coworkers when you see them 6 days out of the week. Anyone have success/fail stories about ****ing coworkers?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
its so hard
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
abe0
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Yeah...do not eat and sh*t in the same water hole. It will almost always not end well and it will feel very uncomfortable in the long run to work at a place when your x is talking crap about you daily to your other coworkers...even your boss. Don't go there. Abe
LandingWood
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I'm a 8 and I have crazy good rep at my workplace. And enough game ..I mean the sheep are in line I just have to make moves. But I that harassment suit sounds bad lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LandingWood
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I'm gonna be honest. I'm inconsistent when it comes to cold approaches because sometimes I'm just not in the mood to do them yet I force myself anyway. And I can tell that the girls can tell that I have an agenda. I come off as creepy as anyone would. But then when I'm just out somewhere everything flows naturally. This inconsistency makes me nervous so I don't do many cold approaches I just let **** happen. Which is obviously a bad way to live in general let alone game.Vice said:
MackNation
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I currently have a friends with benefits situation going with a girl at my work. Long story short: She's about 7-7.5 18 years old, amazing body. We banged a couple times, she got mad I didn't want a relationship, she didn't really talk to me for a couple months but I kept flirting with her like I always did, eventually she starts asking me to hang out again, I tell her I'm not interested in more than just sex, she says okay, we start fooling around again. Fast forward ~6 months, she asks if there's a possibility of more happening, I say no, she gets mad, couple days later hits me up again to hang out but I cancelled on her last minute since I feel kinda bad she's wanting more from me and I'm not interested in her for more than that sweet booty. That was a couple days ago, she still texts me randomly here and there but I don't respond often.
I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.
Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
I don't know if she's trying REALLY REALLY hard to get me to be her boyfriend or if she just can't get enough of the D. lol. I did consider actually dating her at one point, but she is super clingy and has some major jealousy issues so I decided against it.
Anyway, normally I'd say it's a bad idea for many reasons, however this is just a part time retail job I work 3 days a week. Definitely NOT my career so I'm not too worried about it if anything does go downhill.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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