“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

It's official, hotornot.com is ridiculous.

nishbuk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2004
Messages
535
Reaction score
3
Location
MTL
Okay, so we all probably realize that the very premise of a site like hotornot.com is pretty ridiculous if one is trying to get any type of accuracy in their rating...We know this.

But I've always been looking for confirmation of this, so that ppl on here will finally stop using it as place to guage looks. Why, you ask?

It's because guys, more often than girls are more often not considered "universally hot", but rather, can be considered very good looking by one girl, and disgusting by another. This doesn't hold so much for women, as men do tend to be more universally selective when it comes to choosing women based on looks. (There is a clinical study which shows this, but I don't remember where it is. It was in the psych databse that my school has access to).

So anyway, I finally found some solid evidence that hotornot.com is full of shyte with respect to men. Now don't get me wrong, I know where I stand. I'm not a knockout, but I'm not bad looking either. I'm probably around 7-7.5 for most women, but my body is a 9 (would be a ten if I was taller. I'm an elite athlete)

I posted 4 pics. All different pics.

One sitting, hands behind head with a big smile:
Avg rating was 6.7. 50 votes

One standing same big smile, shirtless, six-pack showing, different head rotation:
Avg rating 8.9 54 votes

One shirtless, with my fight gear on, hands in the air jokingly:
Avg rating was 7.9 90 votes.

One showing ONLY mid-torso (solar plexus and up) wearing an Armani suit, 45 degree profile view.
Avg ratin 9.9 50 votes...

I mean wtf...It's not even consistant within 1.5 points.
So finally, as we've been preaching over and over again in this forum, looks are not a deal breaker. If you have sufficient other qualities and you do the best with what you have (great body, clean your skin up, good haircut), you can get above avg. women, even if you are below avg.
Of course there are always some chicks who are shallow, but you don't want that type anyway. So can we have the newbies on this board stop harping about how "they can never get a quality chick because no matter what they do they are just ugly."
Just get someone like those "queer eye for the straight guy" d00ds to fix you up. You just have to do the best with what you got.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

italostud

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2003
Messages
804
Reaction score
7
Age
45

The Antichrist_Star

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2002
Messages
1,066
Reaction score
3
Age
41

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Luveno

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
1,107
Reaction score
12
Age
44
Ratings on hotornot are ridiculous.

However, it's a great way to meet hot girls.

You don't have to be put up for ratings to meet people.
 

BMW

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 14, 2002
Messages
365
Reaction score
1
Location
NYC
they always give you a high rating for some reason regardless of what pic yu put up. Is there a more realistic sight?
 

BrotherAP

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
722
Reaction score
5
Age
45
Location
Earth
Well who knows, maybe Hot or Not is 100% full on right. I mean, if you sat in some gay pose and made a goofy smile and we asked a bunch of girls to rate you, I don't imagine they'd all give you 10s. But then we could put you in an armani suit and ask some girls to rate you, it'd be a lot higher.

As an experiment, we should take an ugly little guy and pose him with a whole bunch of hot babes, I mean like 2 girls on each side, all 9's. We could post his picture like that and test the theory that hot girls make an ugly guy seem more attractive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

h2o

Banned
Joined
Sep 3, 2004
Messages
930
Reaction score
3
Age
42
Location
welcome to my world
Originally posted by BrotherAP
Well who knows, maybe Hot or Not is 100% full on right. I mean, if you sat in some gay pose and made a goofy smile and we asked a bunch of girls to rate you, I don't imagine they'd all give you 10s. But then we could put you in an armani suit and ask some girls to rate you, it'd be a lot higher.

As an experiment, we should take an ugly little guy and pose him with a whole bunch of hot babes, I mean like 2 girls on each side, all 9's. We could post his picture like that and test the theory that hot girls make an ugly guy seem more attractive.
hey, if I have free time I'll photoshop that, and try it...seems interesting
 

nishbuk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2004
Messages
535
Reaction score
3
Location
MTL
Originally posted by BrotherAP
Well who knows, maybe Hot or Not is 100% full on right. I mean, if you sat in some gay pose and made a goofy smile and we asked a bunch of girls to rate you, I don't imagine they'd all give you 10s. But then we could put you in an armani suit and ask some girls to rate you, it'd be a lot higher.

As an experiment, we should take an ugly little guy and pose him with a whole bunch of hot babes, I mean like 2 girls on each side, all 9's. We could post his picture like that and test the theory that hot girls make an ugly guy seem more attractive.
I can see the point you are trying to make, and yeah, I think you're right. You're basically saying that context matters. And you are 100% right on I think. So basically I guess the lesson to take from this, is to ensure that the context in which you live your life (be it your looks, your success, your friends, your attitude) should ALWAYS be at a level that will make you a "10". :)

Good post.
 

AB500

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2005
Messages
123
Reaction score
1
hmm so would the picture I got with the girls at Hooters do anything for my rating? Sounds like an experiment...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top