Just got back into the game last thursday night. My gf is currently on a semester abroad and felt that hey why not get out there since its her choice to leave. Well it was easier than I remembered it, didn't have to do much but have some fun get a lil drunk and enjoy myself with the boys until it was nearing the 4th quater as I like to put it and decided I must get to work (if you can call it work). The cute blond next to me I sparked a convo with and hit it off without a problem got her number and whatnot and called her up, we have a little date this wed's night. No trouble right? Well I have just one in my drunken state I slipped up and made myself a two years older than I really am thinking of making it a one nighter. Well how do I tackle this problem.... Tell her the truth or just, say nothing of it until she asks me. Biggest problem here is I have a babyface for a 20y/o cant even buy lotto tickets without getting carded. Btw shes 22 any suggestions or criticism much appreciated.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's just like riding a bike
- Thread starter zen511
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
So you lied about your age to gain her approval. Don't do things to gain a female's approval.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
If you're gonna lie, lie BIG. If you think you might want to take this further at some point tell her you lied about your age your actually 6. If she presses you for your age again say you lied again. You're 65 but at least you retired rich. Keep pushing till it actually matters at a point way in the future. Then it won't be about lying. Distract. Half the girls I've ever flirted with taught me this.
Yeah sounds good, only tripup for me is that since im not 21 I can't even enter a bar (well some) without this becoming a issue without it being presented, I guess im just going to have to shy the date away from being anything with age restrictions.
BTW called her 2 days ago setup a date for weds. Any suggestions since its kinda cold up here dinner and then..... movie but I dont like the lack of action for a 1st date any suggestions would be great...
BTW called her 2 days ago setup a date for weds. Any suggestions since its kinda cold up here dinner and then..... movie but I dont like the lack of action for a 1st date any suggestions would be great...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
What about bowling?