Just got back into the game last thursday night. My gf is currently on a semester abroad and felt that hey why not get out there since its her choice to leave. Well it was easier than I remembered it, didn't have to do much but have some fun get a lil drunk and enjoy myself with the boys until it was nearing the 4th quater as I like to put it and decided I must get to work (if you can call it work). The cute blond next to me I sparked a convo with and hit it off without a problem got her number and whatnot and called her up, we have a little date this wed's night. No trouble right? Well I have just one in my drunken state I slipped up and made myself a two years older than I really am thinking of making it a one nighter. Well how do I tackle this problem.... Tell her the truth or just, say nothing of it until she asks me. Biggest problem here is I have a babyface for a 20y/o cant even buy lotto tickets without getting carded. Btw shes 22 any suggestions or criticism much appreciated.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's just like riding a bike
- Thread starter zen511
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
So you lied about your age to gain her approval. Don't do things to gain a female's approval.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
If you're gonna lie, lie BIG. If you think you might want to take this further at some point tell her you lied about your age your actually 6. If she presses you for your age again say you lied again. You're 65 but at least you retired rich. Keep pushing till it actually matters at a point way in the future. Then it won't be about lying. Distract. Half the girls I've ever flirted with taught me this.
Yeah sounds good, only tripup for me is that since im not 21 I can't even enter a bar (well some) without this becoming a issue without it being presented, I guess im just going to have to shy the date away from being anything with age restrictions.
BTW called her 2 days ago setup a date for weds. Any suggestions since its kinda cold up here dinner and then..... movie but I dont like the lack of action for a 1st date any suggestions would be great...
BTW called her 2 days ago setup a date for weds. Any suggestions since its kinda cold up here dinner and then..... movie but I dont like the lack of action for a 1st date any suggestions would be great...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
What about bowling?