Just got back into the game last thursday night. My gf is currently on a semester abroad and felt that hey why not get out there since its her choice to leave. Well it was easier than I remembered it, didn't have to do much but have some fun get a lil drunk and enjoy myself with the boys until it was nearing the 4th quater as I like to put it and decided I must get to work (if you can call it work). The cute blond next to me I sparked a convo with and hit it off without a problem got her number and whatnot and called her up, we have a little date this wed's night. No trouble right? Well I have just one in my drunken state I slipped up and made myself a two years older than I really am thinking of making it a one nighter. Well how do I tackle this problem.... Tell her the truth or just, say nothing of it until she asks me. Biggest problem here is I have a babyface for a 20y/o cant even buy lotto tickets without getting carded. Btw shes 22 any suggestions or criticism much appreciated.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's just like riding a bike
- Thread starter zen511
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
So you lied about your age to gain her approval. Don't do things to gain a female's approval.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
If you're gonna lie, lie BIG. If you think you might want to take this further at some point tell her you lied about your age your actually 6. If she presses you for your age again say you lied again. You're 65 but at least you retired rich. Keep pushing till it actually matters at a point way in the future. Then it won't be about lying. Distract. Half the girls I've ever flirted with taught me this.
Yeah sounds good, only tripup for me is that since im not 21 I can't even enter a bar (well some) without this becoming a issue without it being presented, I guess im just going to have to shy the date away from being anything with age restrictions.
BTW called her 2 days ago setup a date for weds. Any suggestions since its kinda cold up here dinner and then..... movie but I dont like the lack of action for a 1st date any suggestions would be great...
BTW called her 2 days ago setup a date for weds. Any suggestions since its kinda cold up here dinner and then..... movie but I dont like the lack of action for a 1st date any suggestions would be great...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
What about bowling?