"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's either I get laid or I get to the friend zone, there's no in between

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the_govner

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What is my problem???? I think I play it too safe with the girls I actually like.

So I have a situation, there's this girl that Ive been acquainted with for awhile now, friend of a friend, and she's always had a boyfriend. Nice, good looking, down to earth chick.

so she moved to australia to take her masters, and noticed on her fb that she's single now. So I start chatting her up on messenger, maybe about once a week for like 3 months. very friendly, hardly any flirting or anything. Just getting to know each other basically.

So she's coming back in about 3 weeks and I guess I'll take her out, do you think chatting has gotten me the friendzone though? I haven't taken any 'chat risks' or anything like that. I call her love sometimes, you know like brb love, **** like that.

Anyway, does anyone have this either get laid or friendzone problem? no in between?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
 
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Dante420 said:
Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
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they aren't sluts really, some are really desirable women. But when I don't see them as long term material, i take more risks and have that don't care attitude and i close.

the in between is good quality dating with ltr potential.
 
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